What Are the Best Treatment Options for Young Adult & Teen Personality Disorders?

February 2, 2026
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Written By: Paradigm Treatment
Reviewed By: Paradigm Leadership Team

When a teen struggles with intense emotions, unstable relationships, or a fragmented sense of self, families are often left trying to interpret what they’re seeing. Some behaviors may fall within the wide range of adolescence. Others may feel persistent, disruptive, or increasingly difficult to manage. 

Although there is no diagnosis called a “teen personality disorder,” personality disorders and related traits can begin to emerge during adolescence. Having an idea of how these patterns develop, how they differ from typical teen behavior, and what treatment approaches are most effective can help families make informed decisions about next steps.

Key Takeaways

  • Personality disorders and related traits can begin to emerge during adolescence, even though there is no formal diagnosis called a “teen personality disorder.”
  • These patterns involve enduring difficulties with emotional regulation, relationships, and self-concept that go beyond typical adolescent moodiness or instability.
  • Diagnosing personality disorders in teens requires careful, developmentally informed assessment that looks at long-term patterns rather than isolated behaviors.
  • Effective treatment for teens and young adults with personality disorders is structured, individualized, and typically includes specialized therapy, family involvement, and, when appropriate, medication for co-occurring symptoms.
  • Residential treatment may be appropriate when symptoms significantly interfere with daily functioning or when safety concerns cannot be managed in an outpatient setting.

About Personality Disorders

Personality disorders fall into several different “clusters,” though each involves enduring patterns (not isolated behaviors) of thinking, feeling, and behaving that significantly interfere with daily life, relationships, and emotional regulation. In teens and young adults, these patterns go beyond typical mood swings, emotional intensity, or developmental turbulence.

While adolescence is naturally a time of change, personality disorders add layers of instability that tend to persist across settings and over time. Teens may struggle with black-and-white thinking, chronic feelings of emptiness, impulsive or self-harm behaviors, intense fear of rejection, or rapidly shifting views of themselves and others.

Research on adolescent development indicates that personality pathology—particularly borderline pathology—is a valid and reliable construct during adolescence, with identifiable onset, measurable stability, and developmental patterns distinct from other psychiatric conditions. At the same time, survey data show a disconnect between this evidence and routine clinical practice: although many psychologists acknowledge that personality disorders can exist in adolescents, relatively few report formally diagnosing them, often due to concerns about transience, stigma, or diagnostic appropriateness.

Teen Personality Disorders

How Mental Health Professionals Diagnose Personality Disorders in Teens and Young Adults

As mentioned above, diagnosing personality disorders in adolescents requires caution and nuance. Clinicians do not rely on isolated behaviors or short-term crises. Instead, they assess patterns that persist over time, interfere with functioning, and appear across multiple contexts.

Evaluations typically include clinical interviews, psychological testing, psychiatric assessments, and a review of developmental history. The goal is to distinguish between personality disorder traits and other conditions that may present similarly, while accounting for the ongoing development of the adolescent brain.

What Young Adult & Teen Personality Disorder Treatment Looks Like

Effective treatment for teens with personality disorders or related traits is structured, consistent, and individualized. Most successful approaches combine specialized therapy, family involvement, and, when appropriate, medication management. 

The following is not an exhaustive list.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT is widely recognized as one of the most effective treatments for borderline personality disorder and related personality disorder traits, including in adolescents.

DBT focuses on building skills in:

  • Mindfulness: Increasing awareness without reactivity
  • Emotion regulation: Managing intense emotional responses
  • Distress tolerance: Navigating crisis situations without escalation
  • Interpersonal effectiveness: Communicating needs and maintaining boundaries

Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT)

MBT helps individuals better understand their own thoughts, emotions, and motivations, as well as those of others. This approach addresses difficulties with perspective-taking, emotional reactivity, and rigid thinking patterns that are common in personality disorders.

When combined with skills-based therapies like DBT, MBT supports greater cognitive flexibility and improved relationship functioning.

Family Therapy

Family involvement plays a central role in effective treatment for teens with personality disorders as well. Therapy often includes parent education, communication skills, and boundary-setting support, as well as: 

  • How to reduce patterns of escalation
  • How to respond to emotional distress without reinforcing harmful behaviors
  • How to maintain consistent expectations
  • How to support skill use outside of therapy

Medication for Personality Disorders

There is no medication that treats personality disorders directly. However, psychiatric medications may be used to address co-occurring symptoms such as depression, anxiety, mood instability, or impulsivity.

Medication is most effective when used selectively and alongside therapy, rather than as a standalone intervention.

When Residential Treatment May be Appropriate

Residential treatment is oftentimes more seriously considered when a person’s symptoms interfere with daily functioning or when safety concerns cannot be adequately managed in an outpatient setting. This may include ongoing self-harm behaviors, repeated emotional crises, school refusal, or patterns of escalation that persist despite consistent therapy.

For some teens and young adults, the structure and containment of a residential setting allows treatment to move beyond crisis management and into sustained skill development. A higher level of care can reduce external stressors, limit access to harmful coping behaviors, and provide the consistency needed to address deeply ingrained patterns.

young adults with borderline personality disorder

Get Help for Your Loved One

Paradigm Treatment provides residential treatment for teens and young adults with borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and other forms of personality disorder that centers on psychotherapy as the foundation of care. Treatment typically includes modalities such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), along with psychiatric oversight when medication is clinically appropriate to manage co-occurring symptoms like anxiety, depression, or suicidal thinking.

Our programs also emphasize consistent therapeutic engagement, small peer groups, and an environment that supports skill development, accountability, and healthier social interaction. Teens and young adults have the opportunity to practice new ways of responding to stress, conflict, and relationships in real time, with clinical guidance throughout the process.

With locations in California, Texas, and Idaho, Paradigm Treatment creates a structured, 

supportive environment where teens and young adults with personality disorders can focus on healing without constant triggers from school, social media, or peer pressure. 

Contact us today to speak with an admissions specialist and learn more about assessment, programming options, and how to get started.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are common signs of teen personality disorders?

Teen personality disorders often manifest through significant changes in behavior, mood, and interpersonal relationships. Common signs include intense mood swings, difficulty in maintaining stable relationships, and potentially risky behaviors. Early recognition and intervention are crucial for effective management and treatment.

How can Paradigm Treatment help teens with personality disorders?

Paradigm Treatment offers specialized programs dedicated to addressing teen personality disorders. Through individualized therapeutic approaches, other therapeutic modalities, and a supportive environment, Paradigm focuses on understanding the unique needs of each teen to facilitate recovery and to strengthen coping skills and emotional regulation over time.

Why is early intervention important for teen personality disorders?

Early intervention is vital because it can improve long-term outcomes. By addressing symptoms early, you can help prevent the development of more severe issues and promote healthier coping mechanisms.

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